Most of us at some point or the other of our lives have been in that position where we thought we were nothing, we felt like we couldn't come out and speak in the crowd because the crowd would think that we were crazy. We couldn't speak among friends for the fear that they would think we weren't smart. We considered ourselves inferior and couldn't even take major decisions, we wouldn't open our mouths to speak against decisions taken on our behalf even when it had to do with something we weren't interested in or didn't like.
No one can say they've never felt like this, we all have at one point or the other, the only thing that differentiates us from the other is whether we got through it and how we got through it. You shouldn't for any reason feel condemned or bad about yourself, it's a phase and the basic thing is to discover who you truly are, what you are and be able to get through this phase.
You need to realise that in your own way and in your world you are a king, you are a queen and at any point in time and at anywhere you can speak with boldness and authority.
I believer that some of us have gone through certain situations in life that has put us in this position and given us another image of ourselves than what we actually are, I need you to overcome that situation or that circumstance. I can't tell you how to overcome it because my way of overcoming it might not work for you but then that's what makes you unique and so you can always work on it and overcome it.
The basic thing you should know is that you are a king and you are a queen. You are unique, you are bold, you are strong and you are beautiful/handsome therefore you can stand and speak in a crowd, you can say your mind among friends because you are smart, you can take decisions on your own and you can oppose decisions.
I'll be adding the lyrics of a song here and I hope it encourages someone here. XoXo
You come from Royalty,
An aristocratic dynasty
The goal of the enemy,
Is that you don't know who you are
There's power when you speak
Be mindful of words you release
I know that life has challenged you,
But the King in me speaks to the King in you
You were born to rule
There is a king in you
There is a king in you
Is there no King in you,
Then why do you speak, speak with such defeat
Is there no King in you,
Then why do you speak, speak with such low esteem
I know life has challenged you,
But the King in me speaks to the king in you
You were born to rule
There is a King in you
